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I love to write and I’m a passionate speaker. I have written a book – JUMP! – and continue to publish articles in various online publications. The articles are supported by video content I created over the years: interviews, conversations and me sharing my knowledge and experience. Enjoy exploring my free content on sexuality, masculinity, authenticity and living your truth.
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FEATURED VIDEOS
Ten things she said to men during love making that changed their lives forever!
Lenerd Louw interviewed Michal Maayan Don (international spirituality sexuality teacher) to find out what the 10 things are?
From CEO to Sexual Mastery Coach: Sexual Energy and it’s Role in the Boardroom
Semen Retention - A woman’s perspective: Valentina Leo aka Mrs Love in conversation with Lenerd Louw
Lenerd Louw talks to Valentina Leo also known as Mrs Love about semen retention, ejaculation control/choice, orgasm without ejaculation, ravishing a women, living life orgasmically from the heart and some more…
LATEST Features
The Sex Reimagined Podcast with Lenerd Louw
Nothing better than being interviewed by two beautiful blondes from the USA about men’s sexuality. Wow, they were super knowledgeable and lots of fun… this was next level!
The "Pick Me Boy"
In this episode, we’ll delve into the psychology behind the pick me boy behavior, exploring why they engage in specific tactics and how it affects their relationships and personal growth.
Lenerd Louw being interviewed by the World’s Mayor, Joshua T Bergman.
Why are men’s circles important? Why are we not being taught how to make love? How do men become multi orgasmic? How damaging is porn to a healthy sex life, or is it? And much more…
Springbok rugby player Joe Van Niekerk and Lenerd Louw on life, awakening and men’s sexuality
Talking about there respective similar journeys as top international rugby player and top businessman and CEO, and taking a leap of faith from there into the unknown…
C.E.O. becomes SEX COACH #relationship
Why many businesses and world structures are disintegrating
Lenerd Louw and Gareth Pickering in discussion about the rise in consciousness that’s sweeping the world.
What do you need to grow a successful business?
Let’s talk about sex baby! PART 4 - Why deeply connected heart centred soul love making?
An open direct conversation with Lenerd Louw and Ananda from Switzerland.
Let’s talk about sex baby! PART 3: Ravish her! Yes, but how do you do it?
An open direct conversation with Lenerd Louw and Ananda from Switzerland.
Let’s talk about sex baby! PART 2: Why men AND women should be in touch with their feminine energies
An open direct conversation with Lenerd Louw and Ananda from Switzerland.
Let’s talk about sex baby! PART 1: The difference between men and women…
An open direct conversation with Lenerd Louw and Ananda from Switzerland.
How Semen Retention can Improve your Relationship and your Love Making
Lenerd Louw in conversation with Lean Bakker about the practice of Ejaculation Choice and how it can transform your sex life.
Leadership, business, God and spiritual awakening
Sham Moodliars and Lenerd Louw in conversation about Lenerd’s five year journey of learning and awakening around the world, and his views about leadership and business in the new world that’s unfolding.
Lenerd Louw and Baba Dez Nichols in conversation in Africa
Two men talking about Men’s Sexuality, ejaculation choice, conscious conception, love making, living from love and some more…
Making love with God
Fuck it let’s JUMP! - Full radio interview with Lenerd Louw author of JUMP!
Life interview on national TV with Lenerd Louw author of JUMP! - Morning Life SABC2
LATEST VIDEOS
ARTICLES
“10 Things I Said to Men During Lovemaking That Changed Their Lives Forever”
Interview with international spirituality and sexuality teacher Michal Mayaan Don | Michal is an ex-lover of mine, a very dear friend, and a special woman in my life. We met in 2015 when I was traveling through Israel for a few months and have been close friends since. For both of us, sexuality is part of our work and a big part of our life.
7 Reasons Why it’s Important for Every Man to Know His Inner Woman
and how it changes his experience of life… | Men, if you want to feel truly complete, balanced and peaceful inside yourself… if you want to know more parts of yourself… if you want to experience more ease and joy with women and understand them better… meet and get to know your Inner Woman!
Proud to be a Man
The inner journey to authentic masculine presence | For the man to be a kind, strong and gentle presence in the world and a wonderful accomplice and partner to the woman; for him to arrive at a place where he can confidently and unapologetically embody and express his healthy masculinity and sexuality — he’s got to embark on a deep inner journey!
5 Life-Changing Benefits of Semen Retention
Make your choice of where and how you spend your energy | Through my work with men and male sexuality, I have come to notice that, generally speaking, men are not thriving. This is mainly because most men don’t live and express their sexuality to its fullest, yet it is this area of life that makes us feel alive, powerful, wanted, happy, creative, and excited about life.
She Came While Giving Me a Blow Job
Debunking the myth that women don’t love blow jobs | There is this story going around … that women do not enjoy giving blow jobs. Perhaps I am just a very lucky guy, but in my experience, women do enjoy giving blow jobs and even orgasm from it. No, I did not make this up for my article to sound interesting, I experienced this first-hand.
Moving From Ejaculation Addiction to a Fulfilling Sex Life
How healthy semen retention can empower you as a man | Men are ejaculating themselves to death. Most expel their precious life juice every day or even a few times a day. Almost all men do this without understanding how much energy they lose and what effects this energy loss has on their bodies and other areas of their lives.
Jacuzzi, Flames and Threesomes
A glimpse into my crazy party years. | There are three naked women dancing on my coffee table. I’m on my back a few meters away, naked on a white feather duvet at the fireplace, cigarette in one hand and a glass of vodka and ice in the other. Their sexy bodies move to the rhythm of the music.
Connect With Your Cock!
Be noticed as a man and enjoy more pleasure during lovemaking. | Can you energetically feel your penis? Can you, without looking at it, without touching it, without contracting any muscles, just quietly sit and, by going inside, feel it? If you can’t — and most men can’t — then you are disconnected from your cock. Sounds serious? It is, but the good news is, that it’s easy to restore that connection.
Sex is My Calling
And how it became my job. |
Lovemaking is just magical and has been a passion of mine for decades. Perhaps even more than a passion … a calling? I see how that might sound a bit up my own ass, but hear me out. For me, lovemaking is arguably the most stand-out experience humans can have, where we can experience such bliss, magic, and ecstasy no other area of life offers.
There is a Third Way…
Musings during the Covid-19 Pandemic. | At the moment two ways are playing out on the planet and most of humanity is fully engaged in either of these two opposing ways:
1 Authoritarian rule, control, infringement and limiting of personal freedom.
2 Rebellion, conspiracy theories and protests.
The End To Slavery
A true leader is a visionary. A visionary goes into the future, sees how we are going to live, comes back and then lives that way as an example to others of how it’s going to be. Just by living that way, he/she invites others to do the same.
Successful CEO’s/MD’s – Still feel like you are missing the BIG picture: The Five Fundamentals to Fulfillment
Are you what the world would call ‘successful’? Successful in your career, business and life. Or so it seems from the outside to everyone, but you can feel a shift happening within you. Do you feel something is not right, something amiss, there’s gotta be more? Is there an inner voice speaking to you, but you can’t hear it clearly?
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“JUMP!” by Lenerd Louw
In 2019 my book “JUMP! An epic soul and sex adventure” reached a number two Best Seller on Amazon! (Spiritual/Religious/Travel)
& won the Literary Titan Silver Book Award.
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ABOUT ME
I love life. I love deep connection. I love sex. I love food. I love nature – all joys of being alive in a body and I believe that we’re here to experience all of life fully and wholeheartedly.
My vision is for people to know what it means if your whole body is vibrating with LIFE and is connected to all life.
My wish is for everyone to express and live their sexuality freely, without any shame, fear, guilt and disconnection. My wish is also for men and women to each integrate and embrace the masculine and feminine aspects within themselves.
My 20 year long experience of being a multi-orgasmic man is the rich knowledge base from which I share my experience and expertise in semen retention and in transforming one’s sexual energy to serve any area of one’s life. I want to lift the veil of confusion around sex and ejaculation and educate people about orgasm and ejaculation being two different things. While I am a hetero-sexual man, all men can benefit from my work.
As a successful businessman with 30 years experience, I understand the connection between money, sex and power. My spiritual journey of learning and awakening of the last 15 years has brought me to deeply drop into my heart and understand consciousness and the interconnectedness of it all. I am a bridge between the ‘mainstream’ and the evolution into a higher consciousness.
Credentials and Experience:
- CEO and Founder of two direct life insurance companies in South Africa
- Senior positions in the UK and South Africa: Strategic Innovations Director, Marketing Director, Founder and Head of the group’s in-house Advertising Agency
- Advocate (Barrister) of the Supreme Court of South Africa
- B. Com (Economics & Law)
- LL.B.
- Masters degree in Business Administration
And:
- Spiritual Sexual Shamanism initiations with the International School of Temple Arts in Hawaii, Australia, New Zealand, Israel, South Africa, Scotland and Ireland
- Yoga Nidra training in India
- Reiki initiation in India
- Siddha Kundalini initiation in India
- Crystal and Sacred Geometry training in India
- Quantum Exploration Studies in India
- Plant medicine journeys in South America (Ayahuasca), Czech Republic (Wachuma), Ireland (Psilocybin) and the Swiss Alps (Iboga)
- Tribal Tantra facilitator training programme in Thailand
- Enneagram studies and Lucid dreaming training in the UK
- Mindscape and Beyond Right Brain training in South Africa
During my travels, I also immersed myself in the teachings and writings of Osho, Gary Zukav, Eckhart Tolle, Dr Wayne Dyer, Shri Prashant, Sadhguru, Drunvalo Melchizedek, Sasha Cobra, Teal Swan, Bentinho Massaro and many more.