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I love to write and I’m a passionate speaker. I have written a book – JUMP! – and continue to publish articles in various online publications. The articles are supported by video content I created over the years: interviews, conversations and me sharing my knowledge and experience. Enjoy exploring my free content on sexuality, masculinity and living your truth and authenticity.

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FEATURED VIDEOS

Ten things she said to men during love making that changed their lives forever!

Lenerd Louw interviewed Michal Maayan Don (international spirituality sexuality teacher) to find out what the 10 things are? 

From CEO to Sexual Mastery Coach: Sexual Energy and it’s Role in the Boardroom

Semen Retention - A woman’s perspective: Valentina Leo aka Mrs Love in conversation with Lenerd Louw

Lenerd Louw talks to Valentina Leo also known as Mrs Love about semen retention, ejaculation control/choice, orgasm without ejaculation, ravishing a women, living life orgasmically from the heart and some more…

LATEST VIDEOS

Why many businesses and world structures are disintegrating

Lenerd Louw and Gareth Pickering in discussion about the rise in consciousness that’s sweeping the world.

What do you need to grow a successful business?

Let’s talk about sex baby! PART 4 - Why deeply connected heart centred soul love making?

An open direct conversation with Lenerd Louw and Ananda from Switzerland.

Let’s talk about sex baby! PART 3: Ravish her! Yes, but how do you do it?

An open direct conversation with Lenerd Louw and Ananda from Switzerland.

Let’s talk about sex baby! PART 2: Why men AND women should be in touch with their feminine energies

An open direct conversation with Lenerd Louw and Ananda from Switzerland.

Let’s talk about sex baby! PART 1: The difference between men and women…

An open direct conversation with Lenerd Louw and Ananda from Switzerland.

How Semen Retention can Improve your Relationship and your Love Making

Lenerd Louw in conversation with Lean Bakker about the practice of Ejaculation Choice and how it can transform your sex life.

Leadership, business, God and spiritual awakening

Sham Moodliars and Lenerd Louw in conversation about Lenerd’s five year journey of learning and awakening around the world, and his views about leadership and business in the new world that’s unfolding.

Lenerd Louw and Baba Dez Nichols in conversation in Africa

Two men talking about Men’s Sexuality, ejaculation choice, conscious conception, love making, living from love and some more… 

Making love with God

Lenerd Louw author of JUMP! and Valentina Leo on her podcast EROTIC WISDOM – With MrsLove.

Fuck it let’s JUMP! - Full radio interview with Lenerd Louw author of JUMP!

The full Leigh Bremridge interview on Bareback Stories, The Eye Radio, with Lenerd Louw author of JUMP!

Life interview on national TV with Lenerd Louw author of JUMP! - Morning Life SABC2

 

LATEST VIDEOS

Why many businesses and world structures are disintegrating

Lenerd Louw and Gareth Pickering in discussion about the rise in consciousness that’s sweeping the world.

What do you need to grow a successful business?

Let’s talk about sex baby! PART 4 - Why deeply connected heart centred soul love making?

An open direct conversation with Lenerd Louw and Ananda from Switzerland.

Let’s talk about sex baby! PART 3: Ravish her! Yes, but how do you do it?

An open direct conversation with Lenerd Louw and Ananda from Switzerland.

Let’s talk about sex baby! PART 2: Why men AND women should be in touch with their feminine energies

An open direct conversation with Lenerd Louw and Ananda from Switzerland.

Let’s talk about sex baby! PART 1: The difference between men and women…

An open direct conversation with Lenerd Louw and Ananda from Switzerland.

How Semen Retention can Improve your Relationship and your Love Making

Lenerd Louw in conversation with Lean Bakker about the practice of Ejaculation Choice and how it can transform your sex life.

Leadership, business, God and spiritual awakening

Sham Moodliars and Lenerd Louw in conversation about Lenerd’s five year journey of learning and awakening around the world, and his views about leadership and business in the new world that’s unfolding.

Lenerd Louw and Baba Dez Nichols in conversation in Africa

Two men talking about Men’s Sexuality, ejaculation choice, conscious conception, love making, living from love and some more… 

Making love with God

Lenerd Louw author of JUMP! and Valentina Leo on her podcast EROTIC WISDOM – With MrsLove.

Fuck it let’s JUMP! - Full radio interview with Lenerd Louw author of JUMP!

The full Leigh Bremridge interview on Bareback Stories, The Eye Radio, with Lenerd Louw author of JUMP!

Life interview on national TV with Lenerd Louw author of JUMP! - Morning Life SABC2

ARTICLES

Proud to be a Man

Proud to be a Man

The inner journey to authentic masculine presence | For the man to be a kind, strong and gentle presence in the world and a wonderful accomplice and partner to the woman; for him to arrive at a place where he can confidently and unapologetically embody and express his healthy masculinity and sexuality — he’s got to embark on a deep inner journey!

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5 Life-Changing Benefits of Semen Retention

5 Life-Changing Benefits of Semen Retention

Make your choice of where and how you spend your energy | Through my work with men and male sexuality, I have come to notice that, generally speaking, men are not thriving. This is mainly because most men don’t live and express their sexuality to its fullest, yet it is this area of life that makes us feel alive, powerful, wanted, happy, creative, and excited about life.

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She Came While Giving Me a Blow Job

She Came While Giving Me a Blow Job

Debunking the myth that women don’t love blow jobs | There is this story going around … that women do not enjoy giving blow jobs. Perhaps I am just a very lucky guy, but in my experience, women do enjoy giving blow jobs and even orgasm from it. No, I did not make this up for my article to sound interesting, I experienced this first-hand.

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Moving From Ejaculation Addiction to a Fulfilling Sex Life

Moving From Ejaculation Addiction to a Fulfilling Sex Life

How healthy semen retention can empower you as a man | Men are ejaculating themselves to death. Most expel their precious life juice every day or even a few times a day. Almost all men do this without understanding how much energy they lose and what effects this energy loss has on their bodies and other areas of their lives.

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Jacuzzi, Flames and Threesomes

Jacuzzi, Flames and Threesomes

A glimpse into my crazy party years. | There are three naked women dancing on my coffee table. I’m on my back a few meters away, naked on a white feather duvet at the fireplace, cigarette in one hand and a glass of vodka and ice in the other. Their sexy bodies move to the rhythm of the music.

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Connect With Your Cock!

Connect With Your Cock!

Be noticed as a man and enjoy more pleasure during lovemaking. | Can you energetically feel your penis? Can you, without looking at it, without touching it, without contracting any muscles, just quietly sit and, by going inside, feel it? If you can’t — and most men can’t — then you are disconnected from your cock. Sounds serious? It is, but the good news is, that it’s easy to restore that connection.

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Sex is My Calling

Sex is My Calling

And how it became my job. |
Lovemaking is just magical and has been a passion of mine for decades. Perhaps even more than a passion … a calling? I see how that might sound a bit up my own ass, but hear me out. For me, lovemaking is arguably the most stand-out experience humans can have, where we can experience such bliss, magic, and ecstasy no other area of life offers.

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There is a Third Way…

There is a Third Way…

Musings during the Covid-19 Pandemic. | At the moment two ways are playing out on the planet and most of humanity is fully engaged in either of these two opposing ways:

1 Authoritarian rule, control, infringement and limiting of personal freedom.
2 Rebellion, conspiracy theories and protests.

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The End To Slavery

The End To Slavery

A true leader is a visionary. A visionary goes into the future, sees how we are going to live, comes back and then lives that way as an example to others of how it’s going to be. Just by living that way, he/she invites others to do the same.

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What I am passionate about is for people to make more love! And to live life fully and passionately: Live it. Experience it. Stay open to it ALL. Stay open to Life!

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About Lenerd Louw

About Lenerd Louw

What I am passionate about is for people to make more love! And to live life fully and passionately: Live it. Experience it. Stay open to it ALL. Stay open to Life!

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ABOUT ME

I love life. I love sex. I love food. I love nature and I love deep connection – all joys of being alive in a body and I believe that we’re here to experience all of life fully and wholeheartedly.

I would love for people to know what it means if your whole body is vibrating with LIFE and is connected to all life.

My wish is for everyone to express and live their sexuality freely, without any shame, fear, guilt and disconnection. My wish is also for men and women to each integrate and embrace their masculine and feminine aspects within themselves.

My own 18- year-long experience of being a multi-orgasmic man is the rich knowledge base from which I share my experience and expertise in semen retention and in transforming one’s sexual energy to serve any area of one’s life. I want to lift the veil of confusion around sex and ejaculation and educate people about orgasm and ejaculation being two different things. I want at least half the population to know about Ejaculation Choice, which is like a Body Hack, a self-instilled energy boost and a guarantee to be the best lover you can be.