We’re talking about
six and different ways of having sex
and you were mentioning something really
beautiful earlier can you expand on that
yeah so I think the what we were talking
about earlier was um the different cells
you know
being in sexuality to
fill your needs to have orgasms and if
that just kind of like the main agenda
or focus in sexuality as opposed to a
sexuality where the connection
um or connecting also from a hard space
is more the focus of as opposed to
satisfaction and and having orgasm
so
um what what I’ve what I’ve come to
realize is if I
if I’m in a sexual and then encounter
where it’s really just about you know
being satisfied having orgasms and like
very satisfaction oriented that
I mean obviously it’s lovely to have
orgasms besides everyone enjoys having
orgasms but then after
um after the sex I I tend to feel empty
just like this feeling of void and
emptiness
um as opposed to you know if if I have
sex then it’s really more
the connection to each other is more of
the focus as opposed to fulfilling your
needs and having orgasm and the
connection is also very
a heart face they’re coming from a hard
space and after sex I feel just so much
more nourished and fulfilled and you
know like my whole Energy System just
tends to to light up and um
yeah but just this beautiful energy that
stays with me for half a day day maybe
even longer
that’s the main difference that I’ve
um I’ve come to experience
so if it’s if it’s
and and
it can be both it’s not just those or
that it can be both you know it’s going
to some of the orgasms and and all of
that but it’s also when I study group it
comes from a place of bizarre connection
and there’s
uh
uh you know some a lot of sensuality
before we actually make love it’s a much
bigger container than just having sex in
August I’m saying yeah
I mean the orgasms still happen in that
space But A they tend to be much more
um much more deep and intense yeah
um than if it’s you know
you know because then then my whole
being is being you know it’s it’s not
just my physical body that is
interacting with with this other being
but it’s like it’s my heart level it’s
my my body as well it’s the energetic
levels it’s just like all of my beings
are being addressed instead of just my
my physical body and so the the
than if it’s just addressing my physical
body and it’s just about this pure
satisfaction
that is uh the difference that I’ve come
to to realize
keeping things quite practical to the
point how would that look like the
difference I can get the one where it’s
just orgasms it’s friction based grab
each other fiction base get to the
destination to understand that picture
you’re not gonna explain that one but
can you explain the other picture of of
how it would look like to have where the
interaction now I would look like
to get to that other scenario yes
um well from one I think the connection
is the key right so
um
putting the connection that you have to
the other person
um kind of in the center right or also
opening up your energetic body to
connect to this other energetic body
right
um and and then of course I’ll see your
heart so not just keeping the energy
down where your genitals are but really
like
um with your focus and your attention
also bringing the energy up to your
heart because where where your focus
goes the energy flows right so you can
really direct the energy to your heart
for example by bringing your focus to
your heart and then also you know
having a heart connection instead of
just a genital panel sure sure so these
are kind of the main differences that um
that distinguish for me the
pure satisfaction physical
approach to sexuality as opposed to this
other approach where all of my uh you
know my energetic body in my heart to my
physical body
in a spiritual body like all of these
everything is included
of just my physical body sure and
there’s eye contact again eye contact
all of that yes of course
it’s important
every now and then not all the time like
not the whole time but yes the eye
contact I find every now and then just
just also create a connection to to my
partner is uh yeah very beneficial for
it for it
connection I think it’s also willingness
to you know really connect to the other
person right to have an openness within
yourself or also with within your heart
to want to connect on this level with
the other person you know like this as
you say look just two bodies having sex
with two Souls having sex yes versus you
see this whole day you’re also making
love when you know two Souls I like that
two Souls having sex two hearts having
sex two bodies having sex like it’s not
just your physical body it’s just these
other aspects of your being as well sure
and that’s I suppose why it feels so
much more
experience
you know make 11 different dimensions in
different you know it’s just this
beautiful beautiful Journey yeah
