My name is Lenerd Louw

I am passionate about heart-centered and truthful masculinity. For many years, I’ve been leading journeys of deep transformation for men to expand into their full expression as men. I am here to assist you to be more confident in yourself and your sexuality, reach your highest lovemaking potential and live a life filled with pleasure, passion and deep connection in relationships.

 Depending on where you find yourself in life, I have prepared a set of materials that will assist you on your journey towards a thriving life and sexuality.

What I am passionate about is for people to make more love! And to live life fully and passionately: Live it. Experience it. Stay open to it ALL. Stay open to Life!


Lenerd Louw


I love life. I love sex. I love food. I love nature and I love deep connection – all joys of being alive in a body and I believe that we’re here to experience all of life fully and wholeheartedly.

My vision is for people to know what it means if your whole body is vibrating with LIFE and is connected to all life.

My wish is for everyone to express and live their sexuality freely, without any shame, fear, guilt and disconnection. My wish is also for men and women to each integrate and embrace the masculine and feminine aspects within themselves.

My 20 year long experience of being a multi-orgasmic man is the rich knowledge base from which I share my experience and expertise in semen retention and in transforming one’s sexual energy to serve any area of one’s life. I want to lift the veil of confusion around sex and ejaculation and educate people about orgasm and ejaculation being two different things. While I am a hetero-sexual man, all men can benefit from my work.

As a successful businessman with 30 years experience, I understand the connection between money, sex and power. My spiritual journey of learning and awakening of the last 15 years has brought me to deeply drop into my heart and understand consciousness and the interconnectedness of it all. I am a bridge between the ‘mainstream’ and the evolution into a higher consciousness.


Your Personal Apprenticeship Journey

Sometimes it just makes sense to work 1:1

because it allows for customised guidance and creates a powerful space of being witnessed and held accountable.

  • I offer guidance for fulfilling and connected lovemaking.
  • I understand relationships on a deep level and I can guide you to have an extraordinary and next-level relationship – sexually, emotionally, mentally and spiritually.
  • I offer teachings in semen retention and how to transmute sexual energy to serve any area of one’s life.
  • I offer guidance on the connection between money, sex and power and how to lead a heart-aligned business.
  • I share tools for emotional release, authentic relating, sexual mastery and heart-centered empowerment.

Book a 30 min. FREE consultation to find out whether we’re a good match.


JUMP! An epic soul and sex adventure

Number Two Best Seller on Amazon! (Spiritual/Religious/Travel)

In 2013 I followed a strong inner call that urged me to change my life completely. I resigned from my job as the CEO of a direct life insurance company in Cape Town, South Africa, bought a backpack and a one-way ticket to Peru, South America and embarked on a profound five-year journey all around the world. The next destination I always chose according to where the next learning opportunity was. I underwent and partook in numerous initiations, rituals, workshops and trainings in self-development, spirituality and sexuality.

I have written a book about my experiences and my inner and outer journey. It’s a story of personal expansion and awakening, surrender, trust and deep transformation.

While this is a personal story, there is a clear similarity to our shared collective story: more and more people are waking up as our collective consciousness expands and rises continuously.

What a ride! I didn’t see it coming. Wow, this is phe-nom-e-nal.

Sean Fraser, editor of Trevor Noah’s Born a Crime